The fear of love..

February 23, 2009 at 6:31 AM 6 comments

Many say love is the greatest and most powerful thing in the world, but has anyone ever imagined how powerful it is? Or how much courage, trust, faith, strength, sacrifice that comes with love?

Love is a nuclear weapon, to many it heals, and to some it has destroyed them… I don’t know how love can destroy, but i know it has made many scared. Lots of people are scared of that love package.

True love is a free gift, you don’t feel empty when you love someone… but have you ever wondered why people fear love?

To me those that say they fear the love package, don’t even know what it means… and may be, they don’t even love themselves.

They don’t feel their worth to be loved, they always assume they will be rejected. And they end up being so depressed for the rest of their life.

Others are blinded by their own pride, You feel your doing others a favor! First of all, there is no love in you, you feel your giving too much than you receive, or you are getting less than you deserve! Have you asked yourself why your in that relationship before you count what you have invested in it?

Others, are still holding on to their past, yes you may claim… it’s all gone, but if your are scared of commitments that come with love… then your past is on your forehead. You simply don’t want to disappointed again, or the wounds are still fresh.

And some are actually scared of responsibilities… to those please accept that your not mature enough. With love, you are expected to share, care and much more.

Love is beautiful… that is what i can say. Make a step to love, start with yourself, then you will understand how you should love your neighbors.


Entry filed under: Love, Relationships.

If you could see beyond the line. My love’s portaint.

6 Comments Add your own

  • 1. redstar57  |  February 23, 2009 at 8:44 AM

    hi…this is nice. i just don’t know how you would describe the relationship i am into right now. lol!

    even i don’t know if what i’m feeling is really love or just an infatuation….

  • 2. akoola  |  February 23, 2009 at 9:04 AM

    Explain it to me… just tell us what you feel.
    May be it’s love.

  • 3. redstar57  |  February 24, 2009 at 3:44 AM

    thanks a lot! actually, it’s quite long to share and it’s complicated. what i’ve posted in all my blogs (i just signed up, actually) is all about it. and right now, i want to end this relationship i’m into.

    thank you for the warm welcome!

  • 4. akoola  |  February 24, 2009 at 6:07 AM

    We all have long stories. At times when you can’t make peace you make pieces.

    Hope you do what is best for you.

  • 5. akoola  |  February 24, 2009 at 6:37 AM

    send me the URL address for your blog.

  • 6. redstar57  |  February 25, 2009 at 2:05 AM

    yes…thank you…i like what you’ve said that when i can’t make peace, i make pieces….you’re right and it’s great meeting you here.

    here’s my URL:

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